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A thought:
in building the relationship with a lover, the challenge in the beginning stages is lighting the fire. Put too much fuel on, let it burn too hotly, and it will burn itself out, and take part of you with it more likely than not. Don’t put enough on, and it will never achive critical mass, and fail of it’s own accord.
You’ll know you’ve found something truly special when your instincts guide you correctly to throw just the right amount on – where everything comes out all right not because of your careful planning but despite it.
S.